Sounds like rhc is scared of where things go and what would happen and is projecting. Cant imagine why coffee would be ruled out otherwise, no ones asked me for coffee but I'd go with no expectations but then Im a coffee addict!
Ponder away Gg, I certainly dont have all the answers or probably wouldnt have found the forum but if my waffling helps that thats good Nothing wrong with friends quite right, I alsways seem to orbit just outside the lots of friends zone maybe because I havent put in enough effort in the past, working on that at the moment, Im also an introvert though.
Are there any clubs or activities you could join in your area and meet people in a group to be a more relaxed environment? Dont think you should need to and dont get it myself but there we go!
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
Nothing wrong with friends quite right, I alsways seem to orbit just outside the lots of friends zone maybe because I havent put in enough effort in the past, working on that at the moment, Im also an introvert though.