Just got this back from the IC about the letter. "My thoughts about the letter is that you should hold off till some of the emotion of the divorce begins to settle for each of you, and you should speak from your heart. I understand what you are trying to convey, but it feels as though you are speaking to and about someone really distant from you, not someone that you have spent years together with."
Definitely right. Not sure I know how to speak to her now.
Had a few conversations today with her about the paperwork. It was a mess. She continually pushes and I feel like the words are manipulated constantly to put me down and lift her up or continue the defensiveness. I'm trying to meet her with compassion but I don't have the techniques or tools down pat in the moment to do it.
I'm really worried about her, she isn't doing well.
Georgia B - I only get your posts like weeks after you post them. Perhaps you are right and she's with someone. l don't care. I can't control that, and although it would be great to know what the real reason is. Thats not the real problem. The problem is her and I.
Almost forget. Met with my DB Coach today. She's the best. I'm thankful I have her.
Signing papers most likely tomorrow. Closing on the house Saturday AM. Then OFF the GRID. Climbing Mt Washington (which is currently -30 deg). Brrrrrrr. It can't come soon enough.
