Train, that story about your GF is so hilarious. I have a couple of GFs here who would totally do something like that too. And they are not in their 20th anymore, they are my age.
Mighty, there is so much going on here. I keep reading and every time I find something that I could apply to my sitch. I know about re-detaching. I’ve done it a few times, I think. Every time there was some hope or “signs”, I had to re-live the whole thing again. Only recently I started to feel different. I’m amused and surprised when H is reaching out or being nice, but I go back to my own life rather quickly. I’m sure you will get to this point at some time.
How weird is it, him talking about his work when oww works there. I’m just curious how he feels going to work these days. After he left his family, divorced his wife, had a baby with oww, and now left her too. The guy must be in some kind of bubble. Either that, or he is in survival mode and doesn’t care what everybody thinks about him right now.
Mighty, stay strong and keep moving along. (((((hugs)))))
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
