"Jefe, I get what you are saying about the lies but honesty isn't something my H is proficient at. As 25years once told me "I'd you had endless energy search for the one or two women on earth your H hasn't lied to""

I'm going to keep circling back to you on this. Whether or not your husband is proficient in honesty has ZERO bearing on this discussion. He bought you a cup of coffee.

You, and rightfully so, jumped on my butt about wanting to "punish" my wife. Isn't this kinda the same thing?

Sweetheart, fight the battles that need fighting, don't create new ones.

Me 47 - W 35
M 9 - T 10
2 Daughters - 7 & 9
Discovery of EA- 8/4/14
S - 8/5/15
D mentioned - 9/11/14
R & Piecing - 3/17/15
Regard one another as more important than yourselves.
- Philippians 2:3