Shining, it is great to hear that you and your kids doing so well. Sorry if it would be a downer, but I keep thinking about what you said how something is changed in you after you found out about H’s big “v”. Why did it make you feel like it was a breaking point? My H did the same last year, and I also have uneasy feelings about it. But so I do about his tattoo and other things he’s done. I think about it as part of the MLC.
The reason I’m asking is that I see where you are on your journey, and I think about mine. You are way ahead of me, and my BD was a lot earlier, I think. I wish I would be where you are right now. So, maybe some insight would help, if you don’t mind.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state