Jefe, I get what you are saying about the lies but honesty isn't something my H is proficient at. As 25years once told me "I'd you had endless energy search for the one or two women on earth your H hasn't lied to"
I do owe him honesty for the simple fact that I believe being honest is the right thing to do. BUT with that said when I am honest and have told him something sparked a memory and I am having a bad day he just pulls away from me and it's so cold it's like he is angry with me. I have told him I need comfort in the form of physical touch when I am upset but anything other than a smile = cold/distant H
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction