Ok. So I'll just become James Bond, got it You are right I do have control issues and also problems to deal with things mature. I mean I am not letting myself go around my W anymore, good start. But then I cry myself out here and when she's gone. I have to LIVE DBing. I have to become the better person, stay true to myself. And if necessary fake it until I make it.
Since it's an in-home separation, does anyone have advice how to deal with W, how to interact with her around the house?
And maybe there's someone here with experience how to postpone/stretch rash decisions regarding the D. For now I got a couple of months. But even the GC application. I could file NOW, but I got 85 days to turn it in, and I'd rather stretch it a bit, but she might get annoyed and angry if I do.
85 days is a great period to get a GAL program running.
Maybe you do not need to be a "better" person. Maybe some things about your personality and appearance can be more attractive though.
I think that is what it is. People are attracted to people who are motivated about things in their life and are having success. They don't know why but are.
Also fashion and grooming, know what looks good on you and do it.
Physical conditioning should be very well.
Probably won't get that wife back, but you will easily be able to get the access of half a dozen new paramours after her.
If you have a chance with the WAS this is what you have to do anyway. You have to live without her and she has to know it, that you can and will be perfect without her.
