Strong EA after 2yrs M - trying to detach. #3

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Ok. So I'll just become James Bond, got it
You are right I do have control issues and also problems to deal with things mature. I mean I am not letting myself go around my W anymore, good start. But then I cry myself out here and when she's gone. I have to LIVE DBing. I have to become the better person, stay true to myself. And if necessary fake it until I make it.

Since it's an in-home separation, does anyone have advice how to deal with W, how to interact with her around the house?

And maybe there's someone here with experience how to postpone/stretch rash decisions regarding the D. For now I got a couple of months. But even the GC application. I could file NOW, but I got 85 days to turn it in, and I'd rather stretch it a bit, but she might get annoyed and angry if I do.