May the truth,

[jim0987]

I'm catching up on this today and so much is going on here. So its bitty but here goes

- 'horse breaker' definitely read like a euphemism.
- so what if he's 30. Thats not that young a 15 years isn't that big a gap any more (though I'm sure people may raise a few eyebrows if suddenly took up with a 19 year old)
- ONS etc are personal choice and very different for men and women generally.
- having never been on a date my advice is not sound but I suspect that leading with the relationship thing isn't the best plan. It might put too much pressure on the guy about commitment etc. Personally I also feel it can come accross as a bit 'man hating'. And finally the guys who are real users will just lie anyways.

Probably missed a bunch of stuff