Forgot to mention my other benchmark: I finally sold my wedding band last weekend, along with some other useless jewelry. I felt fine about it, since that past relationship is totally gone. Now we are just co-parents.

Anyone else out there dealing with child visitation/custody issues across states? I could really use some advice and some examples of what works.

M: 43 H: 39
D: 14
Married 15 Together 16
BD: 6/2014
S: 8/2014
OW revealed 10/2014
Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress
So over it!