yes MrBond she gave a few reasons why a break might be an idea the week i found out about A

1 she loves me but not like she should......from what i have read the past year this is a giveaway

2 we are like room mates

3 she said we seem to have nothing to say to each other anymore

4 i dont say i love her.....true and she always used to tell me
she loves me, i thought she knew i loved her but it turns out
she needed to hear the actual words "i love you"

so based on that, i would say she was hurt.
my guess would be she has told om all this and he has used the info to his advantage, so she now thinks om is the spiders eyebrows and she is angry at me because she thinks she has missed
out all these years.

or i might be way off

like you suggested the other day, im dwelling on the A and not focusing on competing (for want of a better word) with
om but im also thinking she cheated when she could have left
so is she worth it ?

om ex gf isnt helping, she says it was going on for ages but she didnt have any proof, shes a bit of a fibber herself, hates w
and tries to get in my head.


no not been able to download it as im still trying to find it
on the link you gave me

thanks for taking an interest