May the truth,

[Vanilla]

Maybe a stalker type of lass?

Sounds dreamy but a little bit young. Still gg can ogle.

Gg likes eyes, V goes for cute bums. Tight trousers and taught posteriors, like Liam Neesen, found out he was once with Helen Mirren, so perhaps there is a chance? I love the Celtic look on a man, red or blonde hair makes me swoon. A red haired guy with cute buns. Gotta find one to go and gawp at on the TV immediately.

Rapturous thoughts..........
V

[edz]

Damn I think that rules me out v

[Ggrass]

Well kidos at the hair dresser, my lovey gay hair dresser.

She is soo funny blew my view of hairy dykes out of the water. Thanks, that's not something I ever thought of to now.

getting more stripes! And the old ones refreshed, different feathers. An eye, given. Customer gave me the idea he said "if you get a peacock eye, you can give people the evil eye!" Lol

Relationship Dynamics have now become like a hobby, toying and testing things on customers. Fun and funnier seeing the results. I have no where else to practice and it's as good a place as any.

[edz]

A real peacock feather or am I (predictably) behind the times gg? And what colour stripes? I'm saying purple/cobalt?

[Ggrass]

Same colour as before deep purple. Did the shorter trendier cut last time.

However the colour will leak over the fringe more, just to stick out more. Yeah real evil eye. I have some and they clip them in like hair extensions. Being real it will break off, last one fell out after about 3-4 weeks. They were free so I don't care.

It will be funny seeing people's faces, with the whole eye thing. gotta make the gossips think.

[edz]

Sounds very cool and no less sassy than we'd expect from our gg, forum trend setter

[Ggrass]

I think what would make the young dude odd, is I'm too old to be bothered with flings and being one of a string.

Given a serious chance, I'm not ruling out young dudes. I just don't have energy to be disrespected with casual mmmmm that sounds conflicting but I'm not a ons sort of girl. Never have been.

[edz]

Nothing wrong with that. I'm a bloke and never had time for it either.

And no one of any age should be disrespected (in the true sense of the word not the new trendy way) ever, especially in a relationship. Life's too short

[Ggrass]

I thought perhaps the no ons type of idea is what's scaring them. Not that it's been stated.

I would hate to share, given h cheated I would not feel secure or comfortable.

I have some questions for the blokes who come in.

Would a woman that stated r, not ons or casual to see where that leads be too confronting for men? If stated up front?
Is it reasonable to expect?

How long would you date without expectation of ml?
I'm feeling like I need to know someone well plutonic dating what are guys views?
Is it ok to do plutonic dates with a few people if asked?
(No one has damn well asked, and we know what happens when gg asks the bolt)

I am hesitating, on so many fronts. I don't want to find myself in a simlar stich to before.

From what I hear too many of the young set tend to just have no repsect, in a way too free.

[edz]

Well I'm not in my 20s but I dont think my viewpoint has changed.

I've never been interested in ons, ever just not me. As for you saying r only if thats what you want then absolutely dont compromise and again no it isn't confronting it will put off casuals but thats not what our gg is looking for so fine. Absolutely reasonable in my opinion for the right person.

Your dating question, for the right person as many dates, days, months as they needed to feel comfortable is the only honest answer.

Platonic dating seems to depend on the country, the uk is nowadays split between the us format of lots of dates with nothing happening (american buddies correct me here) and the (much) younger generation being very very casual at going much further at the first chance. I think there is a generational change in the late teens to mid twenties groups. This is not something I'd ever have to worry about though

I'd say gg if you're happy as you are dont worry too much, dont beat yourself up on hesitating just take it slow and find who you need in your life. H or someone new, if they're right they will be who you need and respect your needs and requirements.