I really don't know what to do. This morning I was dead set on moving out. Now not so sure. It will shatter my daughters world but then it is going to get shattered at some point. If I don't go my wife will. I'm also sleeping on the couch. At some point she is going to see this. There is a lot on tension between me and wife. We watched tv together tonight and we talked just general chit chat. She sounds like my wife, looks like my wife but althiugh still married she is not my wife. Not at the moment and possibly ever. Think I'll go and see this house tomorrow. Then speak to my wife see what she says. As far as OM it's not going to stop. They own a business together. At some point the reality will kick in. You can't be in a secret affair for ever. Maybe if they wanted to live together. Who knows. But I can't just hang around hoping. I've spent 6 months in the dark hoping when in her mind she had already gone I need to get on with my own life. It's only been a week since the BD. Am i being to hasty
Last edited by SRD; 01/22/1510:22 PM.
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on
