My GAL so far:
- gym 2-3 times a week. Getting fit and (even) better looking wink
- 2 college classes (7 credits) - English and humanities
- meet with friends
- therapy

More next 1-3 weeks:
- eat better and more (diet to gain muscle)
- find a volunteer opportunity (googling already)
- talk to a priest, confess, find some more faith
- go party in LA
- buy new shoes
- maybe find a lawyer to get some legal advise (not sure if that's a good idea yet, GC won't be an issue, but if it gets to D it might get complicated (property, gathered money together, support for school, eventual hardship for me, health insurance, etc.)
- find a small job/volunteer something with high school kids
- learn how to teach/tutoring german

Not sure what I can do to really socialize with many people. Gotta think...


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15