Retreat

[Marylov]

Okay. So I have done the dialogue homework by myself, with no response or even acknowledgment. I am terrified of bringing up the post sessions in person. We received an email reminding us about the post sessions yesterday. I am thinking about forwarding the email to my H, with a message. I'd like your feedback on what I plan to send:

"I really appreciate the time and effort you put into the weekend. I was amazed at how calmly we were able to share feelings I think we both have wanted to share for a long time. As the presenters said, the weekend was just the beginning. I would love to attend the post sessions with you. I know it is an additional sacrifice, and I have already asked a lot of you, but I feel confident that the post sessions would help us improve our situation. Please think about it, I just need to let my mom know about babysitting by tomorrow afternoon."

Thoughts? I know this isn't in line with the DB methods of detaching. But the weekend was about reconnecting and rebuilding, not detaching.