My D has mentioned before that she wanted to move back to our home state, but I haven't shared that with H because I didn't want him to get defensive and blame me for brainwashing her. My D14 definitely doesn't want to be asked to choose, doesn't want to be put in the middle. I don't think he would fight her, but I don't want to make her be the one to force the issue. I want him to see that it's in her best interest. But I think she would choose to stay with me if made to


M: 43 H: 39
D: 14
Married 15 Together 16
BD: 6/2014
S: 8/2014
OW revealed 10/2014
Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress
So over it!