Wife came by for a short visit last night. She commented how good the house looked. While she was here the kids started chanting; Mommy and Daddy sitting in a tree, K I S.... You get the idea. The wife laughed and thought it was funny. It brought up some early memories we all talked about. It also gave me the opportunity to talk about the good things she has contributed to the marriage over the years. W said, "Your daddy has a good memory" she didn't stay long as she was wanting to catch an AlAnon meeting.
Got cold and wet here. Guess we're home-bodies this week.
You gotta attack this thing like a war in Iraq where you don't want to suffer many losses. You can win this war, but it is not going to be through supplication at all. Some of the things you will do may be despicable, but it's to talk to her ego and psychology and allow her to make her own decisions.
