H is the one that wants it (divorce), then he can file.
I agree.
So you know, my wife had a full blown affair with the guy I thought was my best friend at the time. Pretty sure she had a few other flings as well.
And we were seperated for about a year.
That was...8 or 9 years ago. The fact that I cannot remember exactly should indicate how it doesn't actually eat you up for the rest of your life.
8 or 9 years ago and we are still married and she is my best friend.
If you are like my friend, you can do whatever you want and succeed.
But if you are going to work on being married, that passion that drives you and fuels you...a nice way of saying your temper : ). You're going to have to harness that in a way that helps you in your goal not hinders you.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
