Help - Almost Walk away wife who seems stuck

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Another question - how can you detach when you are still under the same roof, in the same bed (though just roommates??)

Yea pundit I have been there and done that.

Let me just say that it can be done, although it is much harder than when they just leave.

Don't move out of the MBR and dont move out of the house.
That is her job to do if she chooses.

Best thing is to fake it until you make it.

Have you read DR?
Keep posting and reading.