When I first came to these boards I thought that moving out was the best scenario and advised one LB husband to move out as fast as he could so his MLC could begin her recovery. I thought the physically separation would stop the WAS from thrashing around like a caged lion.
The longer I have been here the more I see that is not the case. The WAS usually just finds something else to thrash around about.
Seems unrealistic for you to find a place to live that can accommodate 3 kids when you have custody while you don't have a job.
Have you had any discussion as to how you will share custody? Also who is currently the primary child care provider, who does the lunches, follows up on homework and test, takes them to practices...
Maybe to help releave your W of "some pressure" you could suggest a temporary Irish Divorce for the next few months where you live in separate bedrooms and don't speak but stay in the same house?
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
