25, yes I have read that book. H has not read any marriage books. He took the quiz but it was when he was head over heels in love with OW, does that make a difference?
He is so different with me than he was with her.

My primary LL is physical touch. Nothing else even comes close. I have told him I need to be held/hugged/kissed more than once per day and he doesn't do it. He just kisses me goodbye in the morning. If I hug/kiss/hold him he will reciprocate but he doesn't initiate except for the goodbye one.
His LL is words with time together as a close second.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction