25, yes I have read that book. H has not read any marriage books. He took the quiz but it was when he was head over heels in love with OW, does that make a difference? He is so different with me than he was with her.
My primary LL is physical touch. Nothing else even comes close. I have told him I need to be held/hugged/kissed more than once per day and he doesn't do it. He just kisses me goodbye in the morning. If I hug/kiss/hold him he will reciprocate but he doesn't initiate except for the goodbye one. His LL is words with time together as a close second.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction