Hi Pink, I have just read your news and I am so sorry. Your H needs a good kick up the ar@e. I feel your pain and would like nothing more than to be there with you and give you all the hugs you could take.
I can see everyone has come to your support and there are some great people on here.
Please, please believe that you will be happy again. Its not going to be soon but its off in the distance and with your strength and courage you will get there sooner than later.
It seems clear to me that you, (along with most on here) do not deserve this from your H. Ok you might not have been the perfect wife but who is and no matter what your H believes you did or did'nt do in your marraige he could have had the guts to leave, deal with his feelings and THEN decide to look for someone else AFTER you two have decided the M was over.
Please do not let your H's selfish actions reflect on you. The way he has been acting towards you recently had me hoping that yours might be a sucess story and that makes me even more upset for you.
YOU DO NOT DESERVE THIS !!!!!!!!! None of us do but please take your time and reflect on whats best for you and yours.
You are in the driving seat now, your H has been shown as a liar and a cheat and thats something he has to live with.
Pink is worth more than this and you will get much more one day.
I wish my words could heal the pain but please know that I, along with all the others, would be there for you in a heartbeat if it was possible.
Post often because it important that we know how you are doing.
please take extra care and all the hugs and x's in the world.
Sorry if the post was a bit long but you are a very special person and I want you to know that just because we hav'nt met you matter to me (along with the rest of DB crew)
