Stacy - My H did not totally lied to me, since the beginning he said he had feeling for someone, a coworker from another office. He did not mention that things were moving really fast or if this is going on for a lot longer then just now. So there was some truth and some lies.
Suzana - Yes it is awful, and sometimes I even question myself if this was the best thing for me. I guess I will digest it with time and get where I need to be. But yes, it hurts a lot.