Hey Sred

Sorry for your pain. Its awful i know. We are all on here as either in or have been in the same boat and we support each other. I also just found out about my wife is having an affair only 1 week ago. We are still under same roof and being friendly. We have agreed not to talk about it for our duaghters sake. There is little point in talking anyway as she has checked out.
I would recomend trying to stay off the booze. It really will do you no good. It is a depressent. Im not a big drinker so easier said than done. As per some other posters you may need to seek some proffesional help.
You have to concentrate on you now and your daughter. Its self preservation mode. As per others you need to detach and GAL. Do stuff with your daughter. get some exercise. do anything thats stops you sitting around thinking about it. stay strong. keep posting


Me:40 W:35
D:8
T:13 M:10
WAW: 7/14
PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months
Moved out and moved on