Db'd after W D me in 04 remarried W in 07 DB again

[Jbird]

W looked in the refrigerator and commented. "You need to get milk today.....ah what are you cooking for dinner" she then pulled one side of her sweatpants down to show a bruise on her butt cheek. She had turned her ankle and fell trying to get off the air mattress that she sleeps on in her office.

Our life seems almost normal (like pre BD) except no SL and no physical touch at all, no flirting and of course she sleeps in her office. About three months ago my Dr put me on testosterone replacement medication because my T # was lower than the average 75 yr old man. The medication enhanced our SL and prior to BD we were ML almost daily and sometimes multiple times a day. One day last week she said, "I was horny last night I almost came in your room, I suppose you would have turned me down? I said, "oh I don't think I would turn you down." (You would think if one was planning to D their spouse they would not want to ML and would not initiate it?)

I would stop the T replacement because of the increase in desire at this time drives me crazy, but the without the med I have no energy. It also seems to help me think clearly.