Starsky recommended me the book "Boundaries" by John Townsend. Maybe that'll help you some in your situation. Also remind yourself that women want to be told what they have to do sometimes. Your situation might need some leadership. But it's a fine line betwwen pressure and taking charge of the moment. Do it with love. But don't let her slip away, that's what happened to me. Hope it helps.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15
