Another follow up question - does any of this sound like an A? I imagine a lot of it would, but for the fact that she has stuck around almost 2 years in this limbo. I did find her googling "married to the wrong man" on her iPad, but that could be neither here nor there. The biggest issue is that we have been sleeping in the same bed for almost two years as this has been going on (she attempted to move to the other room but that lasted one night.) and she did try to talk me into moving into another apartment when our lease came up. Sleeping in the same bed means just that however. No touching whatsoever.