W just "friendly reminded" me of the reminder letter for my greencard application. "We should get that done...".
She said it friendly but in a way where I know EXACTLY what she's doing here. She wants to get things over with...she seems very determined.

I'm afraid my time will be limited to make a difference. I know DBing is about me, but if my time is only limited to approximately 2 months before she will want to file for D smirk

I'll stick with my plan for now. Although I know it's not gonna change HER so soon, there's no way. It's just gonna change ME.


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15