train, 25yrs, others who kept up on my sitch

[25yearsmlc]

Twin,

I gotta go with Train and Jef on this one sweetie. I know the other posts had some darn upsetting things in them, but this?? This "coffee with his own money" does not rise to any level of anything.

Just giving it to you straight.

Oh, yeah, twinmom. Let's not be out looking for things to be upset about. You have plenty of real things to be upset about.

exactly. This sort of trivializes the other issues.

Make sense?


But H buying you coffee and paying for your gas? Um, hellerrr? Acts of service.
Y---What are your goals? What do you want, sweetie? Spell that out for us.
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Also, have you read 5LL? Have you and H ever taken the quiz to find out what your LL is?

Everyone ought to read this ^^ book a few times. It's not earth shattering but a great reminder NOT to turn away from love, b/c it's not wrapped how we want it wrapped. It's still love.