Maybe I should have said "I'm sorry about your car." I don't know. I don't care I guess. I don't think I'm interested anymore in trying to be nice and caring and appreciative and all that other stuff. In a year's time it got me nowhere so I don't feel like wasting any more energy on that or him. I find it interesting (ironic, maybe, but I don't know if I'm using it correctly?) that he was always so concerned about me driving his car and that I was a bad driver and he was worried I would ding it or mess it up. And here I am with ZERO violations/accidents, and he's had a speeding ticket, a DUI, and now a major car accident. I will admit I feel a little smug about it.


Me:30 H:29, no kids
T:12, M:4 (when D was final)
12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore"
6/14: Separated (I move)
1/15: H filed for D
5/15: D final