(P.S. Speaking of Cheaters ...

About 12 years ago, one of my girlfriends knew her H was cheating. And I knew it, too. We devised a plan:

Three of us girls got together, and my girlfriend convinced her H we were going to the beach for the weekend. We all dressed in our beach-finest - even packed luggage and crammed it in my SUV (!!!) - and drove to my friend's H's job to show him the directions I had printed to make sure they were the best ones - and, of course, to make sure he saw that the car was "packed".

In other words, it was entirely believable. Almost to a fault.

That night, we all dressed in black and conducted surveillance from across the street of his workplace. We drove an unrecognizable car at a safe distance, following him to his family home, where - of course - OW later met him.

We busted up in there with a video camera rolling as my girlfriend confronted her H. I happened to be the one holding the video camera.

Okay, okay. So we were young - in our early 20s - and a little dramatic at the time. But all that to say ...

Ellie is host of our new "Cheaters." And I'll be the camera"man."

Bahahahaha.)


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014