Thanks for the explanation, raliced. I'm always interested in how things are going to work out financially. My situation is entirely different, been M a lot longer, H makes many multiples of what I do, kids are all older. I think it's grossly unfair that the LBW is financially penalized for the whims of a WAH, but that's often the case. So far we have kept everything exactly as it was before S. We paid off our mortgage last January and he's using that to pay his apartment now. Obviously by design, I just didn't realize what was going on. Sometimes I get really p*ssed at the amount he's spending on a pricey apartment, furniture, trips, etc. But all my needs are being met, I'm in the same house, my kids are at the same private schools, it's hard to complain. So I'm not. wink I'm keeping my mouth shut and hoping this financial arrangement continues for a long time.


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