Or you could go for a long walk around the countryside if you find that sort of thing helps you clear your mind?
How awful for you to find out about the finances. I think you're right not to bring it up right now though, I think it will all come out in time. It must have been such a shock though and an additional blow. Take care of yourself.
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.