You're right I do agree with all of that. I don't think my wife is at that point yet. In fact I know she isn't. In our last MC session she just confessed that she has no Physical attraction what so ever to me. Kinda brought me down yet another notch, I really think that was her core issue with me, I think she used the controlling thing as her excuse. I feel it's not my physical looks because she obviously was attracted at one time. I haven't changed much. In good shape and all. I guess it's my whole personality that is making her feel this way. She was always a self concious person. I used to have to tell her she was beautiful inside AND out. Now she's grown into a more confident woman and striving for attention and getting it. I always thought I gave her a lot of it. Think she trying to make up for the lack of it from the past I guess. MLC. Feeling like its still out of my hands , gotta continue GAL.
No different OM.
NGuy
Maybe she has no physical attraction because of the cheating... When they cheat you their rationalization hamster will make all kind of things make sense. There might be nothing wrong with you other than she is looking outside at the world.
