[BrightFuture]

Job, same here in my state, he can't legally come after the house. He is probably kicking himself for signing it off to me. Too bad... He did it with good intentions. This is why I have such a hard time thinking that he could possibly loose the vacation home in a D process.

I am looking forward to the party, in spite the thing that I don't have much energy these days.

Thanks for your support. I can always count on your replies. This morning I was in a good shape after reading your post.

And while I'm typing this... H just sent a text, asking me to get a couple of items for our mutual friends at the vacations home. He said that he will ask my son to pick them up and bring them over, along with his mail. And he thanked me "in advance".

This is interesting... This means that the things were discussed between H and mutual friends. They know my son is coming for sure (I didn't update them on this), they felt comfortable asking me thorough H and not directly, and he felt comfortable asking me for them. Too much thinking, I know .