I hope you and your daughter get good news and that she's okay and will be up and ready to go back playing before too long.
Get your pink tool box out and utilize the DB tools that you have to help you through this rough patch.
Hang in there!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.