You're right I do agree with all of that. I don't think my wife is at that point yet. In fact I know she isn't. In our last MC session she just confessed that she has no Physical attraction what so ever to me. Kinda brought me down yet another notch, I really think that was her core issue with me, I think she used the controlling thing as her excuse. I feel it's not my physical looks because she obviously was attracted at one time. I haven't changed much. In good shape and all. I guess it's my whole personality that is making her feel this way. She was always a self concious person. I used to have to tell her she was beautiful inside AND out. Now she's grown into a more confident woman and striving for attention and getting it. I always thought I gave her a lot of it. Think she trying to make up for the lack of it from the past I guess. MLC. Feeling like its still out of my hands , gotta continue GAL.
