So I have - in the last year I am in awesome physical shape and have seen a few entrepreneurial activities get funding. So things are great from the GAL point. My confusion stems from the fact that she's been in this suspended WAW situation for almost a year and a half. For six months I detached and didn't being up the relationship. Things improved on a day to day basis, but still no physical intimacy. Eventually she brought up the relationship on her own and was still stuck to the script that things aren't working and she feels that she can't change the feeling. So I'm at a loss - not talking about the relationship seemed to only bury the issue, and despite her acknowledging my changes (you are much nicer and approachable), it didn't seem to change her take on the situation. So it seems that I have no choice but to engage her on the relationship? If so, it can only be in bite sized chunks since she's so conflict averse....jeez this is very tough.
