Oh yes,

To all the s that are worried about the oW. Well lets just say that worry is going pretty well. She now does not have a name. The more she has become insignificant to me. The less she is dragged in the sitch. I mean its really true the ow is JUST A SYMPTOM. May be unpleasant but come on...not that relevant. Stick to your guns about what matters to you most. Let them do the work to rid that sitch. Focus on what you need. I know very little but. I have really been in tune with me. I have become better at mastering my emotions. Theirfore I also have been better at watching him spew and staying out the way. I have realized he is going to spew because Im changing.


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Any comments much welcome and suggestions. Also this page has been great for me to vent and share my experience. As I write I appreciate feed back. Thanks


Me:34/EXH:29
Kids: S13, D5, D4
M/o7
HaskedforDgavetohim6/14
decided to work on get remarried counseling.
Kids work went back to old routine.
Left Nov 10 2014
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