Bright, I would look into the issue of the house. If your h signed off on the house to you and the mortgage is in your name, I don't think he could come back and ask you to sell it. Once he's signed off on the house and it was done legally, in my state, they can't come back for a split on it. As for the condo, yes, something would have to be done about it further down the road if you filed for a legal separation/divorce.
You sound like you are looking forward to the company party. I'm glad to see this. I wouldn't worry too much about "aging". I'm sure that once your situation settles down and the stressors are gone, you'll be looking like yourself once again. Who knows, some nice looking man may come up and hit on you at the party. Just go and have a wonderful time. Life is far too short not too.
Good luck w/your latest lab experiment. It will be interesting to see if the fish nibbles the bait. LOL!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
