I'm glad you spoke to the investigator. I don't find it odd at all that your information wasn't given to the investigator. Your h was hoping he wouldn't contact you and that what he's claiming would go through and he'd get the money. Did he actually have that many tools or where they actually worth that much? I have all of my xh's tools and he had a lot, but they aren't worth that much money. Your h is about to find out that his claim may either be denied or reduced.
If this goes to trial, are you going to have to return for it? I'm sorry to hear that this case will continue on for some time. The kid needs professional help, not jail time.
Yes, your h sounds crazy and he's obsessed with money. If he was so darn bothered about his precious tools, he should have taken them when he walked. We can't feel sorry for him because he wasn't mature enough to do so.
Why is he so interested in D20 now? Is he hoping to track her down and try to talk to her so that she'll turn on you? I find it very interesting that he's stalking her now. I hope she's got good sense not to have much contact w/him at this point. As for D12, she's a smart cookie.
Hang in there. Your week started out nutty, but it should settle down soon.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
