Riding the rollercoaster

[dawgy]

Something i have a real problem wth is the fact that I truly didnt know that we we in trouble . Why did nt she say " Dawgy , Im not feeling it anymore , Im unhappy " then I could have done something about it or at least tried to fix what was wrong before it went further down into the pit . So to the comparison of you being offered the new job and being unhappy doesnt really work for me . You told your boss repeatedly that you were overworked and under appreciated and you gave him/her the chance to make it right and keep you. My wife didnt do that . I was shocked when i found out what she had done . She never once said she was unhappy . And if she showed it i chalked it up to the ebb and flow of a long term relationship . No one in a 20 + year R has been dancing around in complete bliss for that long . There are ups and downs . I f she was so unhappy she could have said so . Instead she let some POS into her life and ruined it for our whole family . She bears all responsibility for such behavior . The only thing i can own up to is not being able to read her mind and know she was unhappy . She still hasnt left . I wish she would . The longer she is here the more bitter ive become . Dawgy