Jim and Zelda,

Yes, I think that the personality stuff is quite useful, too. I appreciate you brining it up, Zelda. If nothing else, it provides a pretty good framework for identifying areas to grow and develop independent of the R (and as an ISTJ I like my frameworks). Of course there are overlaying factors - gender (HNHN) for one. Plus I seem to end up with different personalities each time I take it, which is curious.

I'll put an order for some giraffe ears in for all of us then.


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014