Doing the limbo thing (thread #8)

[Ontheup]

just reading your story and im sorry for your pain. Ive just discovered my wife is having a affair. The pain is immense but we continue for now to live under the same roof (separate beds) for our daughters sake until I can move out 2 months.
Although your relationship is a lot better than mine I can appreciate what people are saying. She wont miss you while your still giving her what she needs. For me moving out will ease the pressure cooker im in and give her a taste of reality. She was asking all along for space ...well guess what...now your going to get it. I wont be here to run around after you anymore. I feel so guilty on our daughter though. We have both really let her down. She has no clue yet. He world is getting destroyed because of our poor judgement.