Ganb8te 4 - Putting on my giraffe ears

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To wrap up what shall henceforth me known as The Encounter:

Wish I could have shared a G&T with you and commisserated.

I wonder if he did see you also. Don't you think it is so weird, sad and funny if he did see you and chose not to acknowledge it?

You are welcome to join me for a G&T on my balcony any time, Lisa!

The bizarre things is, no I don’t think it is weird that he would not acknowledge seeing me if he did. I think that is entirely plausible with H. I’m just waiting for him to have his friends collect his records and then change his number ;-)

There is a plus side to H seeing you though and thats that he saw you out volunteering. you were doing good work at something he paid (?) to be at. It shows you moving on and getting on with your life and certainly adds to your mystery.

Agreed. And frankly I couldn’t care less if he saw me. I’ve got nothing to hide.

I had to go back into the town where BF and I lived. OW's business is right on the corner of the main thorough fare. I was nauseous the entire time I was there. I just sped in and out of town, keeping as far away from the old apartment's location as possible.

Yes, I’m fortunate in that I live in a big city so the odds are fairly low (er…1:25,000 evidently). I get the impression that there are a few folks on here who come from smaller towns where it is more likely. I’d be terrified if that were the case.