Affair been going on for 2 years and with 3 different men. Unhappy with me, an EA. I discovered when the third mans wife told me. She caught him through his emails, she found me on Facebook by searching my last name. I started looking thru her emails and collected a TON of crap that I did not need to see. Four days later, after gathering evidence, I asked her if she was having an affair. Never told her that I saw the emails. She admitted to two of them and a shorter time frame. She agreed to end it, stop all communication. Saw a counselor, who has been a complete nightmare, so I'm trying to find another but it's difficult on who to trust. Things were going ok until she contacted one of them again 10 days later. I then laid it all out there. I showed her all of the emails I had printed. Said I wasn't coming home for a few days. Got a call later that nite from police. She was in the hospital for evaluation. She tried to hurt herself. At this point I am now a complete basket case. Things settled down again but there was still information that she was hiding and I knew it. Keep having visions of her with another man. My thoughts driving me crazy. Started drinking heavily a couple of nites ago, EXPLODED on her and then she finally admitted to it all. Living in same house still. Talking but only about our everyday stuff for our daughter. Never once did she apologize. My book on DB came today, decided to just leave her alone and trying to get my act together. I've had 5 anxiety attacks, my emotions are all over the place. Don't know if I'm coming or going. Me:46 W:43 D7 M7
