So, do you think its reasonable that for someone who is so indecisive in something as small as a job, is so decisive that she wants out of the marriage? That's a rhetorical question....
Keep your head up, do the work you need to do. Your W is distracted with OM and is trying to systemically go through and define things one at a time.
Job/Internship is in front of her face.....M and OM is 'safe' right now. Don't push too hard, I think just like my sitch; she's going to need a lull from all of these other decisions for the reality to set in and her to think about your M.
I get impatient too, my W just moved into her House right before Xmas and I was already trying to convince myself that she's in a lull. Well, I see that all the big decisions she made right after BD have died down, so I think she's back to full court press for OM. I'm going to need to wait for that to play out or dissolve before anything would happen.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)