We have a phone call this AM to go over outstanding actions. She was sighing and making noises at some of my responses (anytime I disagreed with her). I stopped, composed myself and said "Why are you angry with me?" Her reply was that she has a lot of animosity built up. I tried to open the door for her to tell me why. She didn't. And I replied "You are not very talkative today." This was an obvious error and does nothing to help me, I see that.
Don't beat yourself up over that..it certainly isn't the end of the world.
As far as your letter, as amazing as it is, I would just ask what you're hoping (if anything) to get from giving it to her? I really don't have any advice as to what to do...I wish a vet would chime in on that.
Sorry about your upcoming D. have fun hiking anyway!
Me-44 (45) H- 50 (51) M-'96
S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)
BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas) home Oct(sep rooms) (EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed) insists wants D through July 2015 no more talk of D since