Pink

We love our Pink and would not have her in pain. I am sad that you are faced with finding this out in this way. Find a loving friend who will support you but make no decisions, or an IC. Please talk this through, perhaps a DB coach? We are here for Pink, you are not alone.

An A is not the end or need to lead to a D. So H is a cheater, there is an OW? Unexpected? Probably not as you suspected it.

If its a hotel then it isn't serious OW is likely married or in an R, otherwise they would be at her home. It is sneaky stuff of H but not bright and he has been so easily caught out.

Pink my H has been involved this way too, and my goodness it hits at our sense of self. It makes us feel less than and actually OWs are the less than.

OW is not a patch on Pink, that is for certain.

If I were H then I would be very worried and anxious. H is very keen to speak to you, wait until you are ready to do so. Until you are really ready, so that Pink is in the best place she can be.

If you want to rehearse we are here for you Pink. I wish I could wrap you in love and care.

If I were H then I would believe I have lost my Pink through my own foolishness. I have lost her friendship, the flirty time and the visits to her in the warmth of her home. I will be excluded and I have lost out. I need to repair and fast. Pink may see sense because I can charm her, I am sure that I can. Pink is upset and is distant to me. I can tell her it was only sex! But I am caught, busted. Pink now has no illusions.

Please Pink make no knee jerk D decisions whilst you are emotional, give yourself as much time as you need. Pink you are in the lead role. Do what is right for Pink.

Vanilla

Last edited by Vanilla; 01/21/15 02:05 AM.
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