Wonderful post Mza, says what I would like to say.
There is no words to take away your pain that I can say. (((((Jim)))))
This is a hard day and painful for you. Clearly you love W and your children and from that place you can move forward.
The past can not be changed Jim, forgive yourself. There is enormous change in Jim and nothing that Jim has written indicates to me that Jim is or was abusive. Sure like the rest of us, Jim has made mistakes but damaging deliberately his W emotionally, sexually or physically? No indication. The truth will out and delusions will dissipate and this takes time.
You can do this Jim, make your home your own filled with GAL laughter and love.
Vanilla
Last edited by Vanilla; 01/21/1501:25 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW